What are
the steps in getting started?
If you have a carrier who has offered to act as the gestating
mother, it is advisable to get legal counsel before you proceed,
so that when the child is born, it can be legally registered to
the biological parents.
If you do not
have a carrier, and you are unable to get information on how to
find one, we suggest that you speak with your lawyer or call the
clinic for contact people. After you have arranged for legal counsel,
call the clinic and set up a time for consultation with your carrier
and the physician.
At this visit,
we suggest that you and your carrier seek psychological counseling
to discuss issues related to this treatment and the outcome. This
is important in order to make sure that all parties are emotionally
ready to proceed. If you do not have a counselor, we will be able
to provide you with that information.
The nurse and
the physician will arrange for the coordination of your menstrual
cycle with the carrier in order to make sure that the carriers'
endometrium is ready to receive fertilized embryos at the time of
the transfer. You, as the biological parents, will be undergoing
a cycle of in vitro fertilization to retrieve the oocytes and sperm.
This will all be explained to you at the time of the consultation. |